Follow these steps and advice to understand the core principles that will help you give women mind-blowing orgasms and unforgettable sexual experiences.
Women Love Sex
For some reason, it’s not common knowledge that women love sex as much as men do.
In fact, women ENJOY, WANT, and CRAVE sex just as much as men do. Sex releases hormones that trigger emotions within women. These emotions can be addicting.
It’s similar to why people love chocolate, caffeinated drinks, smoking, and drinking alcohol. These products, when taken, stimulate the release of hormones that our body craves later on.
Sex releases several hormones and one of them is Oxytocin. It’s known as the “cuddle” hormone which promotes emotional bonding. So not only does sex feel good, it also creates a BOND between two people.
I’ll let you in on a secret. Women that love sex usually fall into 2 categories:
The Discrete, Conscious, and Emotional- These women don’t verbalize that they love sex. It actually takes sometime before you discover that they do. They are concerned about their image and what other people might think of them. Discretion is key when dealing with these girls. Venusian Arts chats about this allot. You should communicate early on that you’re the type of guy that keeps his mouth shut. Do this and you’re good to go.
And The Damn Proud, Physical, and Loving- These women don’t care what other people think of them. They usually convey their sexuality through the way they speak, move, and touch people. They tend to love adventure, spontaneity, and sex in a lot of different places. You should communicate early on that you’re a sexual being and you have no hang ups when it comes to sex.
“If you understand the things that make her tick, how she likes to be treated, and the way she likes to be touched… Then you’re lucky and you don’t even know it yet”
Men and women are different in a lot of ways. Men focus on getting things done while women focus on the experience and the emotions.
Men are stimulated visually. That’s why all hell breaks lose whenever a men sense beauty within proximity. Heads always turn whenever a hot girl walks by. It’s instant gratification.
Women on the other hand are stimulated emotionally. If you can trigger all the right emotions within a woman, then she’ll going to have to try really hard to resist you and your advances.
Sex is another example.
Men are similar to eggs. They are easy to cook. It only takes a minute or two until they’re ready. Men are can get turned on within a snap of a finger.
Women are similar to uncooked chicken. You need to fry them for sometime before they’re can be served. Women have prerequisites to having sex. If you want to give them a memorable experience then you need to turn them on first. They need foreplay.
After Ejaculating, men to relax, calm down, and recharge. Women on the other hand experience long lasting pleasure when they ejaculate.
Mind Blowing Sex Prerequisites
“Women have sexual power over men that communicate they want, need, and are eager for sex. These men are on a long waiting list and they have little or no control or power over the situation. On the other hand, men that could care less if sex goes down or not, have a greater chance of getting what they want”
Most men value sex too much and this just makes things a lot harder for them. They tend to be a prisoner of the emotions and desires. They will do anything to get sex and women take this to their advantage. When sex becomes valuable to you then you’ll end up paying a higher price.
The solution to this problem is indifference to the outcome. This concept is counter intuitive.
If you can demonstrate that you could really care less about having sex, then you’ve just leveled the playing field.
Here are some Killer ways of looking at things:
Sex is a given. It’s guaranteed to happen sooner or later. I am in no rush. I could care less if it happens tonight or not.
All I know is that if ever it does, she’s going to be the luckiest and happiest woman alive. It’s going to be an amazing experience for her and all her friends will be jealous of her.
I am a sexual being. I enjoy sex but I don’t thrive on it.
Sex is the deepest form of communication for me. I tend to open up and become genuine after sex.
Most of my best relationships start out sexually.
Mind Blowing Sex Prerequisites
Alright, let’s get straight down to business. Here are some of the most effective TOOLS you can use to give her an unforgettable SEXUAL EXPERIENCE. These are adapted from a post at The PUA Forum.
A. Stimulate Her Senses
Use the power of the senses to your advantage. The more senses you can involve the better and richer the experience will be for her.
- Aromatherapy- Set the right mood by having some scented candles. It helps create a romantic environment.
- Soothing Music- Make sure to have a collection of slow and sensual music that relaxes the mind. It helps creating in creating a sexual mood.
- Dim the lights- Dim or turn the lights off and light some candles. Not only does it help set the mood, it makes women feel comfortable too. A lot of women are usually conscious with their body and how they look like.
- Shared Experience- Do something together. Watch a movie in your room, eat dessert, and go take a shower/bubble bath together.
- Compliment her- Compliment her. This makes her feel comfortable around you. Say things like “You know what… I love the way you smell… I love the way your hair falls on your face, and I love the way you make me feel right now”
- Massage each other- Have some massage oil and learn some basic massage techniques. There are lot of books, videos, and classes that will teach you the basics. You don’t need to be great at it, the basics will do. Massaging sexually charges the interaction.
Deep breathing- Don’t forget to breathe slowly. It will help you relax and focus on the task at hand =p
- Lightly caress her body- Lightly and slowly run your hand all through her body. Don’t focus too much on the erogenous zones in the first couple of minutes. Save that for later.
B. Emotional Rollercoaster
- Fight and make up- Make up sex is always a great experience. Next time you get into an argument with her, try turning it around in the middle of the night. Not only does it help reconcile the argument, it provides a charged experience as well.
- Playing hot and Cold- One minute you say you love her then the next minute you say you hate her. Kiss her, roll around, get her aroused, and then stop and do something else. Pay attention to her then ignore her, or vice versa. You pretty much get the picture. Be unpredictable.
- Variety of emotions- Make her experience a variety of emotions such as fun, happiness, sadness, excitement, intrigue, fear, and etc. This can be done verbally by talking about an experience or demonstrated by doing something that creates these emotions.
C. Tension and Dissatisfaction
- Role reversal & Playing hard to get- Tell her that she’s not getting any that night. Explain to her how all women just want sex and you feel bad because you don’t want to be exploited. Tell her that you don’t kiss on the first date. Use all her lines on her. Play those cards first.
- Leave her wanting more- Always pull back at a high point. Be the first to end things when it gets hot and heavy. Run your hands & mouth on her whole body except the erogenous zones. This builds tension and dissatisfaction and result to her wanting more.
- Gaining compliance- Get her to do things for you early on. Give her commands like: come here, turn the music up, stay still, turn around, bite my neck, kiss me, take my shirt off, and whatever you can think off. The key is to get her complying with everything you say.
D. Romantic Beast Tactic
- Be Gentle- Kiss her softly. Run your hand slowly through her hair. In other words, be gentle. Then after several minutes…
- Be Dominant & Wild- Start taking control of the interaction. Pull her closer to you. Slam both of her hands against the bed. Pull her hair. Talk dirty. Tear off her clothes (optional), put your fingers in her mouth, turn her over, take her shirt off, dry hump her from the back while you’re pulling the back of her hair and sucking on her neck. Here’s a recap on seduction.
- Be Gentle- Then comes the hard part. Be gentle again. Soft and light touches.
- Repeat the process- Repeat the process. Repeat the process.
- Be smooth- Don’t ask her permission, it kills the vibe. Just assume the sale. Kiss her. While you’re kissing her take your take your clothes off. While you’re going down on her, put a condom on. Don’t ask, just do it. Pull her jeans and underwear down at the same time. Or just move her underwear to the side.
- The unexpected- Have sex on unexpected places such as cars, sofas, someone else’s house, beach, and etc. It’s exciting. It’s unique.
- Stay on top but don’t put it in- Fool around with all your clothes off but don’t slip it in just yet. Just let your best friends touch but don’t slip it in yet. Make her want it.
- Get her to touch you- Grab her hand and gently stroke yourself with it while kissing her. This advance sexual tactic accelerates the process and breaks her resistance.
- Change your tempo- Once you’re inside of her, change your speed from time to time. You can go really slow several minutes before you wildly pump like it’s the last time you’re ever having sex.
- Thrust your hips- Be a master at thrusting your hips back and forth. You can interchange between shallow and deep thrusts to create variety. If you’re on top, tell her to put her hands on your ass and pull you towards her. Do the same to her.
- Add-ons- Don’t forget to kiss her passionately, run your hand through her hair, across her back and legs. Smell her neck, suck on her collar bone, and kiss her ears. If you’re ramming her from behind make sure to stimulate her clit with your fingers.
- Make her cum- It takes longer for women to cum so you got to hang in there buddy. There are lots of exercises out there that help prevent premature ejaculation. It’s something that takes practice to master so practice all you want.
Wrapping It Up
Now go out there and make me proud. I want to hear about your success.
I hope that this has been helpful in giving you a picture of what day game is and how to master it.